by Mary Ann Krems and Dee Erlandson of PCAY
Building assets in youth has always been about relationships and positive approaches to issues youth need in their lives. The Holiday Season has always been regarded as a time of PEACE and Family Celebrations.
The ads in papers and on the television, all claim to bring happiness if one buys what they are promoting. In this time of slowed economy, layoffs, or reduction in employments, or a lack of funds in a home, one can still build assets in youth and following is a few suggestions that families can do that will not cost a fortune to do and may even be free.
- Take the time to talk with a youth about needs in the world by those who have less than they do.
- Assure the youth if they are anxious about their future and assure them the adults in their lives will work to resolve the issues.
- Take a family trip to the library where toys and films can be checked out and the youth can show adults how to use the computer if needed and free email accounts can be set up with a free library card. Choose a book with advice from a librarian if needed, and take the time to read it out loud at home.
- Look at where food collection needs are and bake or gather some cans of food to donate…the Salvation Army, Family Crisis Center, Operation Bootstrap, St. Vincent de Paul. Volunteer to help with serving a meal or asking them how you can volunteer some time with them.
- Consider donating blood to the Red Cross and explain to your youth why you choose to do that.
- Take the time to take a hike on part of the Green Circle Trail or visit Schmeekle Reserve exhibits.
- If children are small, visit the Children’s Museum in the Mall.
- If funds prohibit as much spending for toys or gadgets, as in the past, explain to your children and you will find they can be excited with one toy as several and be fine.
- MOST of ALL…take the time to be together, listen to what is important to each other and THANK them for their presence in your lives.
