Over the last ten years, so-called “reality television” has infiltrated our society. Viewers watch reality TV shows intently to see the latest “must-see moments.” On any night one can tune in to reality shows that put bad parenting skills in the spotlight. The shows present parents in a negative way and feature an “expert” telling them what they are doing wrong.
Family and Children’s Service, a nonprofit organization based in Minneapolis, Minnesota, has developed The Family Project Model, which focuses on using a strength-based approach to build parent capacity. Instead of focusing on parent deficits, Family and Children’s Service facilitators and partnering organizations invite parents to come together monthly to talk about what is important to them as parents. During these family gatherings, parents have the opportunity to talk about issues affecting their children, their community, and their lives in general. Parents lead the groups and decide which topics and challenges need to be addressed. The Family Project Model gives parents the opportunity to reach out to other parents, build support networks, and take action together to make positive change for their families.
Search Institute serves as the external evaluator for this ground-breaking program. The Family Project Model reminds us all of the importance of building Developmental Assets® at any age. By addressing parent capacity using a strength-based approach, parents are given the opportunity to reflect on their parenting strategies and model healthy behaviors for their children.
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