By Eugene C. Roehlkepartain
(From January 1992, RespecTeen newsletter)

  • Bombarded by Media
  • Television: The Electronic Parent
  • Music Mania
  • Tied to the Telephone
  • Managing the Media
  • Media Awareness Organizations
  • What Branches Can Do
  • What Congregations Can Do

    The normally happy family was frustrated, worried, and upset. "How are we going to live?" queried one of the teenage children. Dinner was sullen and silent. Sleep was restless. Tempers were short.

    Something must be seriously wrong, right? Actually, a simple act had created all the furor: The mother had unplugged the television, and refused to plug it back in for three weeks. The daughter threatened to go to a friend's house to watch her favorite shows. The son and dad were upset that they couldn't watch the baseball game during dinner.

    "My son became surly, my daughter nasty, and my husband wandered the house trying to find something to do," reports Lee Bayers Rapp in the Christian Science Monitor. The kids even began feeling left out at school because they couldn't participate in all the conversations at school that revolved around the previous night's shows.

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    Bombarded by Media

    The Rapp family's withdrawal symptoms illustrate how addicted our culture is to the electronic media. And teenagers are at the heart of the media culture. For many, their entire world is saturated with television, music, video games, and movies (see Figure 1). According to Search Institute's study Young Adolescents and Their Parents, the average fifth to ninth grader is exposed to the media four hours each day. Consider some of the specifics: The question is: How does all this media exposure affect kids? Is it a positive or negative influence? And how can parents, teachers, church leaders, and others who care about kids control kids' exposure to the media so the media doesn't control kids? To begin answering the question, let's examine what research says about the impact of various media-particularly television, music, and the telephone-on teenagers so we can develop helpful responses.

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    Television: The Electronic Parent

    "There is little doubt that throughout America television has become a substitute for adult supervision," writes Dr. Robert Blum. Today, children and teenagers are likely to learn about family life, friendships, sexuality, health, alcohol and other drugs, gender roles, and many other parts of life through television, not their parents. "TV takes our kids across the globe before parents give them permission to cross the street," says Joshua Meyrowitz, author of No Sense of Place: The Impact of Electronic Media on Social Behavior.

    Though television can convey and reinforce positive values, too often it has a negative, not positive, impact-particularly when it dominates a young person's life. The Troubled Journey found that young people who watch three or more hours of television on an average school day engage in more at-risk behaviors. Other studies highlight additional concerns:
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    Music Mania

    As teenagers grow older, they spend less time watching television and more time listening to music. Between seventh and twelfth grades, the average teenager spends almost as much time listening to music as the entire number of hours spent in school since kindergarten. Older teens (15 to 19 years old) account for 25 percent of all recording sales in the United States.

    Despite its widespread use, music's impact on teenagers is much less clear-and thus even more controversial-than television. This may be due, in part, to the fact that music rarely has kids' full attention; they tend to be doing something else with music in the background. It also reflects that music is so pervasive in youth culture that it's difficult to isolate music's effect.

    Psychologists generally believe that music tastes reflect a teenager's personality instead of shaping it. In other words, kids choose music that reflects how they already feel about the world and themselves. One study of troubled teenagers found, for example, that heavy metal listeners tend to have a deep sense of isolation from others, while folk music lovers tend to have lower self-esteem and lack of communication with parents. Acid rock lovers show a lot of conflict and anger.

    And while there's no doubt that some popular music conveys negative, harmful messages, there are questions about whether kids hear those messages. A California State University sociologist surveyed junior and senior high students about their favorite music. Only 7 percent perceived that their favorite songs were about sex, violence, drugs, or satanism. Twenty-six percent indicated that the songs were about love. And 37 percent said they didn't know what their favorite songs were about. They just like the melody or beat.

    There is evidence, however, that heavy a music subculture-particularly heavy metal music-can signal problems. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, "Teenage immersion into a rock subculture may be primarily symptomatic of alienation and hostility toward adult society . . . . The music may be both a portrait of their alienation and an unflattering reflection of their perception of moral and ethical duplicity of adult society."

    For most kids, however, music is a natural symbol of young people's search for independence and autonomy. Dr. Laurence Steinberg and Ann Levine conclude in You and Your Adolescent: "Today, as in the past, parents worry about the effect of music on their adolescent's behavior. . . . There is little evidence that adolescents listen to lyrics, much less use them as a guide for behavior. . . . Like light reading, music is a harmless way of escaping from everyday life and indulging fantasies. If you find your adolescent's taste in music offensive, ask them to close the door or treat yourself to a pair of headphones for them."

    Perhaps even better advice would be to insist that they listen to music at reasonable volume levels. There's clear evidence that listening to loud music on personal stereos for long periods of time can cause permanent, irreversible hearing damage. "I would never tell a kid not to go to a rock concert now and then," says Dr. William W. Clark of Washington University Medical Center. "But listening to a headset at maximum volume for hours at a time . . . means trouble."

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    Tied to the Telephone

    Teenagers and telephones are the source of endless stories, constant parental complaints, and frequent jokes. Kids appear always to be on the phone talking with friends, arranging dates, planning parties. But unless telephone time interferes with homework or family time, it's probably more helpful than harmful for teenagers. Talking on the phone allows teenagers to talk about sensitive topics and to get honest feedback from a safe distance. The phone gives them a sense of privacy, while also helping them develop social skills.

    Of course, these benefits are of little comfort to parents who get constant busy signals or when long-distance phone bills add up. Experts suggest that this conflict should be negotiated. Some parents add a separate phone line for the teenager (which he or she can pay for). Others add call waiting. Still others develop a phone schedule and time limits. These solutions can deal with the problem (family conflict) without cutting off the benefits for teenagers' socialization.

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    Managing the Media

    Clearly, the media is an important part of teenagers' world. The question is how best to respond to that influence. It would be impossible-and generally counterproductive-to try to isolate young people from the media. What are some better alternatives?
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    Media Awareness Organizations

    The following organizations and resources for educators, parents, and congregations help teenagers and children use the media in appropriate ways.
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    What Branches Can Do

    Lutheran Brotherhood branches can raise awareness about media concerns and promote healthy media use in a number of ways:
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    What Congregations Can Do

    Churches can respond to the media's influence in many of the same ways branches can make a difference. In addition, congregations can:

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